I love the LORD because he hears my voice
and my prayer for mercy.
Because he bends down to listen,
I will pray as long as I have breath! —Psalm 116:1–2
When we bought our first home, it was all we needed: 680 square feet of living space! What will we do with all that room?! We had been in a small apartment for the previous year and this was huge in comparison!
At that point we had no kids. But within a few years, we had three—and they were growing fast! As they grew, our home of 680 square feet seemed to be shrinking every month.
We began looking around and found a place that was rough, but huge. And the price was right. So, we put a bid in on it. It was an unusual property, because it was a repo; and because of that, there was no agent we could contact, it was for sale by a bank.
We waited days, then a week for any information or a call back. I had never been more anxious about anything in my life. “We need a bigger home. Will we get it? Why aren’t they calling us back?” I wondered. BTW, this was back in the day before email, texting, etc. We waited and waited. Finally, I called the bank to find out what was happening and they told me it had sold a week previous to someone else.
“Arrrggghhh!” I thought. “The least they could have done was called us!” I had wasted all this emotional energy overthinking something that was already gone. True I didn’t love the place, but it had a lot of room for the growing family. And we had prayed about it, but I remembered all of the worrying that accompanied that experience.
During that time, Erin was on the look out for a new place for us to move to, and she found a place nearby to that repo home that had been sold. But this new house was far cooler…a Victorian.
Just coming out of that anxiety filled experience with the last home, I said “Father, I’m just going to trust you in this home buying process. If you open the door, good. If you close it, that’s OK too. I’m trusting you.”
We made an offer (with our real estate agent Priscilla) and unbeknownst to us, the offer was made and accepted before the home got posted to the Multiple Listing Service.
This home needed a lot of work as well, but the price was better, the vibe was far cooler and we’re still in our beautiful home today.
After the purchase was complete (with little to no stress), I remember thinking that God, had heard our prayer for the previous home and said “No”—not because he didn’t want us to have a home, but because he had something better in mind.
I remember thanking him with something like this: “Father, you know what we need better than we do. Thank you for not giving us that previous home. This one is far better!”
I love the psalms, because they remind us of what I learned in our home buying process. They remind us what God is truly like. Psalm 116 starts out:
I love the LORD because he hears my voice
and my prayer for mercy.
Because he bends down to listen,
I will pray as long as I have breath! —Psalm 116:1–2
Jesus said that God is more than just a supreme being, or cosmic force, he is a Father. Good fathers listen to understand what their children need, so they know best how to help.
When you pray, not only does God hear your voice and your request for help, but he actually listens to what you say. More than just your words, he hears the desire of your heart. And because he knows all possible outcomes, he may deny your request today, to give you the desire of your heart tomorrow.
God hears you. And more than just your words, he hears the desires of your heart.
That is your Heavenly Father. He is a good, good Father who loves to give His children good things.
And because of his faithfulness we can say—like the Psalm writer—”Because he bends down to listen, I will pray as long as I have breath!”
If you’d like to join me in reading/listening through the Psalms and Proverbs each month, you can download the PDF I’ve put together here. Worship and Wisdom is a great way to start your day.
I tune in to the audio first thing each morning. Would love to hear what time of the day works best for you!
Blessings, Bill
Bill Herried is a pastor at CenterPoint Church in Tacoma, Washington and is married to the most extraordinary woman on the planet. Together they have 3 adult children and 4 grandchildren. He has been the lead pastor at CenterPoint Christian Fellowship in Tacoma since 2006. He has an undergraduate degree from the University of Washington in Seattle, and Master of Divinity from Corban University in Salem, Oregon—and he loves a good biryani.
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